TTC 7+ years... Need BD advice

Valerie
After so many years of Ttc, doing the deed has lost all romance and spontaneity. How do I get him to want to have sex without it feeling like a chore or planned? We are just starting to get back to Ttc. We had taken a long break because of stress and now we are both ready again but i don't want to keep forcing it. It feels unnatural. Please help!