i cant stand my dads family:(

Amanda
so me an my amazing man are getting married in december but i call him my hubby already an he calls me his wife well i told my grandma on my dads side an that i missed my period an i could be pregnant instead of being happy for me my grandma starts saying that my kid will be different from his/hers other cuzins cause all mt family is white an my babe will be mexican an white an then she said why didnt u use protection my uncle was also there an started saying racial stuff abt my hubby i said some stuff an left now i understand why my sister has nothing to do with that family cause her of her kids being mixed .my point is its not the 1800s its 2015 theres alot of mixed kids with different races parents why cant my family jus be happy that i have the love of my life an now we might be bringing a beautiful babe into this world that we will love unconditionally it should not matter the color of the skin at all if ur happy an in love an people like to see u happy then they should support u an love that ur happy for the first time but apparently not for my family it makes me sad to no my child may never get to no my grandma for the person i thought she was :(