Is only me but my husband does mn't seams want as much sex as I do. he works with his body in construction so I undertand some days he is extremely tired, but at the same time we are ttc but dont really have sex that often and then when we do I think about ttc...My husband is 41 and I am 38. he said man at his age is like that the sex drive is not as much...any advice?betside putting cute lingerrie...