Blowjobs

Ma

MacKenzi
Is it weird that I really don't like giving blowjobs? Like I'm afraid to tell my boyfriend I don't like them. Like I give them because I wanna keep him happy, and well gotta return the favor sometimes. But I really don't like them
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Ro

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It's not weird at all. I hated giving blowjobs before I met my husband. I also hated sex. Now I LOVE both.  Sometimes it's just about the man your with. 

Ma

MacKenzi • Sep 14, 2015
I mean I love the sex part of it, I just don't enjoy the blowjob. It's not him either, I've hated every blowjob I've given.

Lo

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Nope, not weird at all. I know many a people who don't like having someone's general is in their mouth. You should never feel obligated to return any sexual favors. Be open to telling him that it's not something you enjoy doing, if you're not absolutely revolted by it then doing it once in a while will make it an extra special thing. I'm sure he'd appreciate the sacrifice. 

Lo

Lorie • Sep 15, 2015
A hand job for example

Ma

MacKenzi • Sep 14, 2015
Like what do you mean?

Lo

Lorie • Sep 14, 2015
No completely, first red flag for me, is he forget/didn't care about your personal boundaries. He's not pressuring you which is a good sign, but you still shouldn't feel obligated. Have you tried other ways of pleasing him?