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Emily_dominick
I'm a white girl that likes a black boy my parents don't allow me to date outside my race what should I do??!
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Al

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Do it anyways. You're Your own person & one day will live alone and won't have to worry about it. It is sad when parents are like that & if they can't get over it that's their business not yours.

Am

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I'd ask them if they'd want you dating a black guy that treats you well or one of your own race that doesn't. It'll show what they're really concerned about. I want my kids to be happy and treated with respect, color is only that, color.

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Lucille • Oct 5, 2015
*straightwhiteboystexting

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Lucille • Oct 5, 2015
True fact: most fuqboys are white. Srsly. Look up straightwhuteboystexting on tumblr, i show the messages to my latino husband all the time and he doesn't get why they are such idiots.

He

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Date him any way!! i did!!! And i ended up married and with two kids and my parents love him and our kids now....u never know until u try....there is nothing morally wrong dating outside ur race that just stems from hundreds and hundreds of years from hate!!! Do u and be happy and i wish u the best!!

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But they allow you to date within your race? That is so so annoying. I would flip if I were told something like that.

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⚪Hula👶👶👶 • Sep 14, 2015
lol yup

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Cookie🏋💪 • Sep 14, 2015
Omg!! You're one of our own! haha :)

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⚪Hula👶👶👶 • Sep 14, 2015
Yes without the accent. I was born in Canada

He

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This pisses me off..people need to get off the hate train!!! I love people of all colors, shapes and sizes!!!

#c

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How old r u? I think if u still live under ur parents roof u should respect their wishes but if it's what u really want when ur an adult on ur own u should certainly persue it then

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#crazycatlady4life • Sep 15, 2015
that's all I'm trying to say I think their rule is wrong and it's a terrible thing to teach ur kid that skin color matters but there are alot of rules in my day to day life that I don't like and there were rules when I was living at home that I didn't particularly like but it doesn't mean u don't need to follow them and I don't think she needs to change her parents mind or way of thinking it's their right to feel that way but the issue isn't whether anyone agrees with their rules the issue is respect

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J • Sep 14, 2015
I agree Jenny, racist or not is their home their rules. There is nothing you, I or anyone else can do we dont pay their bills they are free to make whatever rule they feel like in their home. If the OP is an under age she will just have to deal until she can move out.

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#crazycatlady4life • Sep 14, 2015
ty :D

Sh

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Wait until you're 18 then do what you want.

Wa

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Don't let your parents bigoted opinions interfere with your life. They're either stupid or bad people, either way, don't let them influence you

Ma

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Do it anyways lol. At first my dad didn't approve of my SO because he was black&spanish... Not 100% Italian. He wouldn't approve of me dating an Irish man (if I was into them), not even someone who was 97% Italian .. Had to be full blooded . Until I found out I was pregnant, now his views changed because his granddaughter is mixed 

Ab

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If you are under 18 and live in your parents house you have to follow there rules. If you don't you will just make the situation worse believe me I know!!! It will be better once your 18 you can do what you want and be with who you want.