My SO is not in the military he just works in the states and I'm in Canada. We're dating yes but don't see each other often. We decided a while ago that he'd come and see me for my birthday end of October. I had gone to him in the late spring of this year. I mentioned how excited I was to spend my birthday with him and he said he's so sorry but can't afford it right now due to some bills. I respect that and I would never hold that against him. Today I noticed he posted something new on his instagram. A picture of a brand new Truck with a caption of my new baby impulse buy on it. Instead of coming to see me he's put his money into a new truck. Please note that I held off on changing my car to something half running for a year so I could save to see him. And he turns and buys himself a $60,000 truck and says he can't afford to come and see me. Am I wrong for being pissed off?! Please help