So I've been overweight my whole life.. My hubby and I have been together for 4 years. And we think it's the perfect time to start trying. A lot of people are telling me to loose weight before trying to conceive and that it's going to be hard for me to get pregnant. I'm scared that it will take a long time, so it stresses me out.. And that affects my weight even more. Anyone else that's overweight And had a hard time or easy time getting pregnant? Please Help!!