Ok, so I've never had one before, but if my SO and I are doing it, if he's hitting a certain spot I have the urge to pee. Sometimes I stop just to see if I had to pee and there's nothing. 😒 when I tell him I have that supposedly "pee urge" he says to let it go but I can't.. Is it the pressure that causes me not to release? 😕 sometimes I try to let it go but nothing happens.. 😒 what is a woman suppose to do to get an orgasm around here..