So I found out something this weekend that I'm not sure how to feel about so I'm in need of some advice. A couple of weeks ago my future husband and I decided to start trying to have kids. Well this weekend we were on our way to Texas and his mom started telling me about all the surgeries he has had due to him only being born with one kidney. Well I guess when he was 17 he had something wrong with his body that caused his right testicle to go up into his body and not drop back down. Well I guess they had to go in surgically place his testicle back into the sack and had to sew the sack together. Well then his mom blurted out that there was a possibility of him being sterile. I wanted to cry because he never even told me. I felt betrayed and like I was given false hope. I feel almost lied to. Finally later that night he and I talked about it and I let all my emotions out and he just laughed!!! I am devastated. I tried to be okay all weekend but we spent the whole weekend with his neice who is 6 and his nephew who is 1. They adored me and it made me really sad because I know there is a possibility I may never get to experience that feeling or that bond with my kids. I don't love my man any less I'm just sad because kids are my biggest dream in life. How would you all feel? How would you cope? How would you bring up the topic? Am I wrong for the way I feel? Help please!!