Frustration because i couldn't breastfeed

There is anyone else in my same position. My daughter is 3 years and i still frustrated that i couldnt breastfeed her. I had a breast reduction surgery and nipple removal few years ago and that make the breastfeeding process really difficult for me. Most part of my frustration is because other people comments about how wonderful are mothers who breastfeed vs the ones that used formula. There few family members that are so mean about this. Im pregnant right now and im already feeling the preasure of make it work this time even when i know is going to be really difficult. Last time i didnt have any milk production, any milk leak, pain, nothing. My daughter latch correctly and she was not urinating. Is giving me anxiety and im trying to find ways to deal with it.