This being my 4th baby and after no baby shower for my first two and not knowing the sex of my 3rd one we have decided not to do a shower until after the baby is born which puts me in a tough spot on baby clothes and other items neeed for the hospital and home. We have to purchase the bed and stroller (since I don't drive) which will take up most of our money. What do you ladies suggest to purchase so I can have the baby bag pack and ready to go? I have diapers and a few outfits from Caring Pregnancy Center but that is it. Ideas are much appreciated. Thank you in advance