Help!

Aranza • I am 21 years old. I have a beautiful 4 year old daughter who is dying for a sibling. Her dad and I have been together 7 years and married for 4. We have been trying for baby #2 since December 2014.
So I've been off the IUD since December. My periods have been crazy irregular. I am almost 3 weeks late. I've been having crazy headaches (which I don't get often) feeling tired, moody and crampy. I want to test but I don't want to get my hopes up for them to come crashing down again. What are the odds I'm actually pregnant. I had a regular period last month and had sex close to ovulation day.