What's a good condom?

So me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while. And the first few times we used thin condoms cause we didn't know what to do so we were slower. Now it has progressed more. And we can't use the thin ones because they've broke and he gets very scared. Even when they have spermaside on them. We tried getting ones that weren't thin with spermaside on them. They basically choked his penis. It was uncomfortable for him. Then we got ones that fit him perfectly. But something about the live on them aggrivated me. Kinda hurt. 
So I would like to know what condoms are good for any type of sex? Whether it's rough of light. And don't suggest magnums. Cause he can't fit in them. He's adverage. Sorry babe. 
I would just like to have sex where we're both comfortable and enjoy ourselves and don't have to worry about anythibg. Please help