Am I the only one...?!

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Ok so I have a question ladies.. I'm 27 and have been sexually active since I was 17 however I have never been the the OBGYN. I suppose it mostly because I'm nervous to have some strange doctor check out my lady parts. My boyfriend and I really want to have a baby within the next 2 years and part of me wants to wait until I'm forced to go because I'm pregnate. I do get nervous from time to time that their may be something wrong down there or I may not be able to get pregnate but even with that anxiety  it's not enough for me to make an appointment. I could really use some advice! :)

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Think of everyone who who'll be checking your lady parts when your preggers.. I have one child and going to a OBGYN now is like hey.. How are you.. Here's my cooch.. All good? 👍 
Cool.. 
So, I would definitely go just to make sure you can start a family. As well as to get to know the doctor that will be delivering your child.

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It's normal to be nervous. But you definitely need to go. It's for your health and that's really important

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They see tons of lady parts all day long. You don't have anything that they haven't seen before. It's not so bad after the first time.

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Don't worry about it at all. It doesn't take long, it's not as awkward as you think and it is very important for your health and pre-conception health :)

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Oh my god you need to go right now. Many STDs are asymtomatic and can cause infertility if left alone to long. And honestly, if you're sexually active going to the obgyn is not big deal.

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Oh girl.. It is NOT THAT BAD! I hate going to doctors and was especially nervous about the OBGYN.. Then I was in the waiting room...... And a elderly lady (80 or older) wheeled herself next to me and I over heard her speaking to the nurse assistant about a bandaid on her woo-ha! So right then and there I thought to myself, "The doctor would be happy to see my unders!" So no worries just imagine all the other ladies with band aids that came before you. Not to mention..... How or why the bandaid got there 😘

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Don't be nervous! The obgyn has seen plenty of vajayjays so there will be no judgement! You should definitely go for a checkup tho just to make sure you don't have anything that could hinder you from getting pregnant!

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Hun.  I cannot stress how dangerous that is. When I was 22, my obgyn found precancerous cells on my cervix. I had no symptoms, doctor had no idea until my papsmear came back abnormal. If I didn't go to the obgyn and get regular check ups, I could be dead right now.

Am I the only one...?!

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