Would you feel disrespected?

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So last night my bf and I watched a marilyn manson movie last night and I was just telling him how uncomfortable it made me feel and didn't want to watch anything like that with him because I feel like he crosses the line and mocks god and I don't want anything to do with it. So sitting are sitting here and he turns on a freaking marilyn manson interview talking about being forced to read to bible and a bunch of crazy talk!!!! So I got up and went into the bedroom.  I'm so mad and feel like he just straight disrespected me!!!! How would you feel?

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Maybe you shouldn't be with him if you don't believe the same things. Just like he should respect you, you should respect him and his beliefs/differences. He doesn't need to only bend to you, you BOTH need to compromise.

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I feel like there should be a compromise. Like if he wants to watch it and you don't, you are both adults. Maybe he could've watched it at a later time when you weren't home or something but you shouldn't not allow him to watch it because you are uncomfortable.

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You can't control other people, if it really bothers you talk some more about it and see if u can come to a compromise.... FYI Manson is not the anti Christ.  He just has his own viewpoints of religon that he has experienced from his own religious upbringing

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Overreacting

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The issue here isn't what you were watching or what your opinion is, it is that you told him how you felt and then he immediately did something that was clearly meant to bother you. I personally wouldn't want to be with someone who thought so little of my feelings.

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I am not religious but if my partner is, I would definitely respect his faith.

If you think it is a serious relationship, you guys need to talk it out. Good luck

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He should of respected your feelings and watched the interview alone. I kind of have a similar issue with my fiancé about paranormal movies. I don't particularly like them for religious reasons, but he constantly keeps asking me to watch them. He usually waits until I'm busy or in bed before he watch those types of movies.

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If he's doing something that makes you uncomfortable after you asking him not to, its very disrespectful. He should respect your views and feelings.

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If you're not letting him watch what he likes, isn't that also disrespectful?

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My husband likes to watch Dexter, which I hear is good, on an iPad. I'll be watching TV and hear people screaming so I tell him to turn it down. He will. If I'm watching a girly movie or show, he'll ask me to turn it off so we can watch something together. You just have to compromise.

Would you feel disrespected?

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