Shaving

Jasmine
Okay so I've been shaving my vagina for about 7 months now and it is starting to suck. At first I did what I wasn't supposed to and shaved against the grain but I've fixed it and have been shaving with the grain for about 5 months or so. So why do I sti get bumps and ingrown hairs?? It seems as though every hair that grows back is ingrown. And I only shave it once a week! So I know it can't be irritated. I don't know what to do. I have thought about waxing and they have at home wax kits but I'm in a college dorm and I don't want to do that with my roommates. I am planning to move in with my boyfriend in December do I just need to know how to keep it tame until then. What helps? What works? I need help and advice. I've tried using deoderant but it just seems to make it dry and itchy. I used lotion yesterday and it hasn't itched today so that helped at least. But how do I fix everything else???