Vasectomy??

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I sometimes think my SO 
(we are separated at the moment) may have had a vasectomy. He enjoys no  protection like most men..but he doesn't seem worried or concerned or never even asks if I think I'm pregnant. His age (50) is the reason I think he did it and plus he lost custody of his kids when he was an alcoholic. Lived in regret. I asked him did he have one he says No.

Any thoughts??

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If you get back with him, play with his balls one night. Seriously. You can generally feel where the knots are from where they are tied off. He thinks you're having a game of tickle, but you might be getting answers to your question.

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Well my first question is are you ttc? If you are, tell him you want both of you to get tested.. If he has a sperm analysis done and he has no sperm in there..  Well you have your answer.

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You can order test and put some of his semen on it and it will tell you if he is fertile or not. I mean he will know you don't believe him but you'll get the satisfaction of knowing

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Maybe it's something he still isn't ready to talk about. Give it some time and I'm sure he'll come around.

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My cousin had this happen to her. She met her husband in the army. Her and her husband got pregnant, had their daughter and once they came back from Italy they were trying and trying with no luck. She had no idea until about 2 yrs after they started ttc. I'd say if your worried about it, get him to go to a Dr and do a sperm analysis, is the best advice I can give. I hope he hasn't had one and not told you. Good luck.

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Nothing wrong with that if he did

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shouldnt there be a scar i a guy has had one maybe small or something.

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Maybe he isn't telling you because he doesn't want anymore kids

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TTC Was always something I wanted to just happen so we just enjoyed regular BD..and didn't put focus on it. I tried to not think too much about it...so I asked and he said No. He has two biological children already. Youngest is 4 So...it would've been after 2010  and we just met last year.I have more time to get to know him before TTC. Don't judge me but I really rushed. I feel awful for that

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Why aren't you worried about getting pregnant? Are you TTC? I guess he could be lying unless he thought you both were TTC as well. Can't figure out why he'd want to lie about a vasectomy, but stranger things have happened.

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