Wisdom teeth

So I am getting my wisdom teeth now and they hurt so bad. I am starting to be more afraid of what I might say to my husband when I'm high rather than the surgery itself. I know I was really mean when I was on medicine when I was in labor with my son. So my questions are 1.) how bad is the pain after the surgery? 2.) what do people usually talk about when their still high after the surgery? 3.) should I be scared?