So I'm not having a baby shower. I told my family that I would have a baby shower. But since no one offered to throw me one. I decided that I wouldn't pay all the money that goes toward a baby shower when I could just use that money to get the things I need for the baby. This made a ton of people in my family mad. Which made me even more mad because they are the ones who 1. Either don't show up. 2. Show up to eat and have fun but don't bring a present. They have shown me that in the past because they didn't bring anything to my past baby showers nor any presents to my daughters last 5 birthday parties.

So i told them the total cost of the baby shower wouldn't even be worth the cost of the presents I would get because the 20+ people who want to come but I know can't afford or just refuse to get a present. And I'm not about to pay for y'all to eat and have fun at my baby shower when y'all can't even bring a present for my baby.

So now everyone is saying I'm selfish and rude because of what I said but they all know its the truth. At this point im so sick of people and just being around my broke selfish ass family.