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Why is it so hard for me to cum/squirt or whatever?

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Squirting is actually just urinating. I wouldn't recommend it if you can avoid it. Haha.

There are a lot of methods to get someone going. Your best bet is to just keep trying different methods of masturbation. If you're talking about orgasming with a partner, just communicate what you want. In my own personal experience, just penetration does not at all make me orgasm. Some foreplay is needed

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There is nothing wrong with you, everybody is unique! If you mean female ejaculate, it's actually fairly rare, only about 20% of women can produce a significant amount of fluid. It's actually related to the size of your skene's glands, and how active they are, they are small glands along the female urethra and can produce fluid in some women. But "squirting" is very rare and in pornography it's generally just urine, and it's almost never that dramatic in real life. If you mean orgasming, that can sometimes take some exploration and time, everybody is different, you can buy a vibrator or dildo to help you reach orgasm on your own, just be sure you invest in quality materials, my favorites are by Tantus or Jimmyjane. I personally produce maybe half a teaspoon of sweet creamy fluid with each strong orgasm I have, and thats rather rare among those of us with vaginas.

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