Pride vs ungrateful

Destiny
I been jobless since the end of April due to pregnancy illness and moved back with my mother . My boyfriend currently works but haven't have time to save money back for our child.  since both our cars needing repairs  my family members recently have babies girl and i been getting the hand-me-downs which is a blessing and I told my boyfriend that my cousin was giving me all of her daughter clothes, swing, bouncer, bassinet  she couldn't wear or use  and he doesn't want me to take the Items because he would take care of that saying we not beggars  or  poorly but my family always been there for me when I didn't have anything. But it depends on what it is I don't aways  take what my family gives me ..  But this time I don't wants to come off ungrateful..  My cousin recently gave me a car seat And I haven't told him yet cause I know we be arguing about taking it knowingly he would buy one . Is it me or is he's 
 Pride getting in the way ??