I left my husband a few months back. Not because I didn't love him but because I learned to love myself more than sacrificing everything. In the months we have been seperate he has had two girlfriends and for a while we were civil and it was fine. Last month he began bashing me online and calling my job and even coming into my work to take my phone (which he did not achieve) a few days later I messaged him and told him we needed to talk. We set up a meeting place and he broke up with his girlfriend because he thought I wanted to get back together. We are now back to square one. We are talking as friends and he is back with his girlfriend and for the last few weeks it's been fine. I've told him I don't see us getting back together which of course upsets him and understandably so and laid out that we are friends and I don't want him to feel as if I'm misleading him. I guess I just don't know what to do from here. I'm still hurt and angry but I'm still in love with him. I don't want to work at it because I'm afraid I'll end up in the same predicament. I've told him this and his answer is always "just get back together with me" which I won't do. I feel like I'm loosing it. Any words of advice?