I am nervous; pretty certain Hubs is as well. We have been trying since Aug 2014 but no contraceptives since Feb 2014. In Aug 2015 I brought home a fertility doctors packet after a good amount of research for Doctor, facility as well as insurance verification started. My hubs immediately doubted my selection of professional which hurt my feelings. I still asked him to fill out his portion for the marital consent section. We did have a lot going on that week in true disclosure. I told him where the packet was 4 days prior to our mini break at the breach with his family side in mid August. I brought the packet to the beach and he saw me reading it in private. After the beach; we returned home and I told him the packet was in the foyer. He left on business trip a day later and never looked at it from what I could tell. I had to cancel the appointment which was a day or two later (also a day after my bday 33). When he returned from work trip he asked me why I had cancelled the appointment (it was on our shared e calendar) l just said I could not confirm because the packet was not filled out. So long story short...it is now almost Oct and that was the last mention of it and the Doctor. What should I do? I had decided to wait for him to bring it up and make sure he is ready. (Although in Sept turned 39). Suggestions? I am not going to be a pushy nag. I want him to be a part of this as much as he would a child's life.