How should I have sex?

Question

I want to have sex with my boyfriend, im 16 but im kind of scared! Dont know how, when with what, etc.
Can someone help me? Please? How can I make it perfect and romantic? And how can I tell him? Because im very very shy!
We are super in love and I think we both want to do this!

Answer

Don't rush it, when the time is right it will happen, in the mean time I would get birth control so you are prepared and protected from pregnancy.

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Don't try to make it perfect and romantic. It will stress you out and you won't enjoy it. Talk with your boyfriend and see if you do want the same thing. Clarity is key. You may want to go on birth control a month or so before. If not, get condoms (well use condoms even if you're taking BC). Make sure you have lubricant so there won't be as much "shoving" and awkwardly trying to avoid pain. Take it slow, don't rush it. A good starting position is missionary, where you are on your back and he is on top of you. Once you get comfortable with that, you can explore more positions.

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So then do it. This is something the two of you explore together, not something you can be taught don't worry you'll figure it out

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I'm going to be very honest with you and say that it's going to be awkward no matter what you do so don't stress about it being perfect or romantic. And if he's a guy chances are he wants to have sex with you too. You both need to just have a discussion about it and everything should work out. Have fun and make sure to be safe!

How should I have sex?

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