im three weeks today, my ex knows and wants nothing to do with me until the baby gets here. he cant even go to his niece's birthday what makes me think he'll come around when my baby gets here? i have nobody, only him and my best friend know im pregnant and she's more there for me than he is. i want him to be in my life, i want us to work out our relationship and problems we had but not like this. we're both just way too stressed and confused and freaking out over me being pregnant. he really wants to be there but if hes not there for us now why should i let him be there when the baby comes?

please help, no harsh judgement, no telling me to leave him. i need support here, ladies😳😞