Have you ever miscarried?

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I have had 4 pregnancies and 0 babies. I've had two etopic pregnancies and two miscarriages. All four have made me sad, but I am resilient and strong and know if the time is right, one day I may carry a full term, happy, healthy baby. I am 28 years old and could also do without a baby. I could just have my freedom and ability to be selfish for the rest of
My life.  We will see what life has in store for me. I am adopted and have 14 brothers and sisters, 11 of them also being adopted so unconditional love is something I'm very curious about experiencing for myself. Who knows. I'm hot and I'm cold. But still every time I've been pregos and it hasn't worked out, I've felt so indifferent that by the time I feel the void in my heart it's been to much time, I feel like I shouldn't talk about it. I don't want anyone to think I'm having a pity party. But each time I feel like a little piece has been chipped off of my heart. It's been so long since the first time, and so many times that followed I can barely remember it. Tonight I am thinking about it a lot. No perticular reason. And I guess I just want to know the extent of my loneliness. Has this or something similar happened to you?

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I have an 11yr old... I had an ectopic pregnancy in 2005 and a miscarriage in 2011 and this Labor Day weekend I found out I was pregnant again! Several visits and ultrasounds later, they still can't find a gestational sac. They decided it was another ectopic...Tuesday after seeing Perinatal specialist and my ob he gave me an injection of methrotrexate to end the pregnancy and prevent surgery or tube rupture. My HCG was 2200 on Tuesday and today after ER visit it is 6600!!! No bleeding still and this shot should have caused my levels to go down... I'm so confused right now. I'm definitely NOT going to allow them to inject me again just going to wait it out.  I want to buy maternity and baby stuff but I don't want to be disappointed and depressed. Any thoughts???

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I've had 8 pregnancies 6 miscarriages  1 d&c and 1 abortion no kids 
I'm having hope that I'll have kids but right now no me and hubby want to enjoy our life

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7 pregnancies. 1 live birth and currently 19 weeks tomorrow so thankful for the bad because with that comes good

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Had 7 pregnancies and I have three kids here and I had two miscarriage and one ectopic with removal of Fallopian tube and now I am 4+3 pregnant and hope it will stick

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I've had 3 pregnancies and I'm only raising 1. My first was stillborn, my second was shortly after IVF, and my third was with the twin of my son (who is almost 17 months old).

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I've had 4 pregnancy I dunno if... o can say I had a miscarriage but two we're beaten out of me..
One is here she's 5 going on 25... and pregnant now at 16 weeks and he's loved very much..
Its not easy my friend had 3 miscarriages .. :( I'd speak to a councilor and your obgyn...

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Have you seen a therapist or counselor to help you process these feelings? Being adopted yourself can definitely affect your feelings and how you cope with the losses. I have PTSD, so luckily I had a therapist before I lost my daughter. I saw her the day my delivery and every week after for a month. She helped me to understand and accept my feelings, fears and guilt. There is no "normal", just your normal.

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I put yes before I saw more then once I had two the carried my son and now I have had two more

Have you ever miscarried?

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