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Should I get the implants anyways?

Dr • Mon, Sep 28

Im not even an A cup, I have enough to need a bra but not enough that any bra fits. There is no true cleavage to my breasts and it takes a lot of work to look like I have any cleavage at all. That being said, I'm limited in the shirts and dresses I can wear, and just about everything I do but needs tailored. Modesty is extremely difficult at times (especially with a clingy toddler!) My lack of breasts keep me from being happy with my body, and I feel deformed. I've tried my best to be content with myself but I just can't.

I would love to get breast implants that are proportional to my body (I'm very petite so I pretty much want the smallest size possiable) for the record I have been 100% upfront and honest about this to my husband from day one. (Literally one of our first serious conversations lol) but he absolutely HATES the idea. Any time I try to talk about it with him he shuts down and on the rare occasion I get an opinion out of him it comes out that he thinks I'm being materialistic. He doesn't like unnatural things in people (not even piercing) and he was honest with me from the beginning that he's a total prude lol I feel like I should get the implants anyways and he will love them in the end. But there's a nagging feeling in the back of my head that he won't and he will only be able to see me as materialistic. One time a long time ago he told me he was fine with it because he knows it's something I've wanted from the beginning and that he will never not find me sexy, BUT now he claims he doesn't remember that conversation. :(

Has anyone else ever had hubby's that hated the boob job idea at first but loved them in the end? I'm at a cross roads here :/

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