Hello me please

Samantha • Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 8 years we have 2 kids together and ttc #3 after a MC 🙏🏻👶💗💚💙
Well I had been thinking I was pregnant has the nausea boob tenderness could not lay on my belly and all that but got what I thought was AF but it was 9 days early I looked up on line ways to tell if it's AF or a miscarriage because I was feeling so bad well I have had big globs of blood clots come out it was bad I could not walk with out feeling like I was going to die and I have never used so meany tampons in my life I'm really sad about the hole thing but I was wanting to know how long should I wait before TTC again and when will my body be normal again I did not go to the de cus I did not think there was anything they could do for me please no nasty comments