Betrayal and heartbreak 💔

I got married very young, after 7 yrs of marriage and 3 kids my husband cheated on me on one of his trips to mexico...I kicked him out and moved on, only to come back together a yr later. We had baby #4, and for the next 10 yrs all was good.... Until he got a FaceBook. Somehow him and the chick he cheated with reconnected, i found out and kicked him out again. i plastered all her nudes and their private messages on his Facebook page ( noone in my family had him as a friend, i had blocked him, and my kids do not have fb), much to my surprise i was being harrased and trashed talked by his family..... Come to find out they are 1st cousins....she lives in mexico so i know nothing happened physically this last incident....But he hid the truth from me for over 10 yrs and says the only reason he entertained   her this last time was because he knew i was talking to guys... I wasnt, but that is his lame ass excuse. And the reason for cheating the 1st time was because she gave him a BJ and things went from there. Again bullsh*t! But now im double hurt, the cheating and now to know who he slept with makes me sick to my stomach..... I cant stop crying... And the worst part his family is OK WITH ALL THIS. I just needed to vent.... 18 yrs down the drain.... 💔
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So

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I'm sorry but that is disgusting and as much as it hurts you did the right thing... No it's time to concentrate on you and your children

Al

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I'm Soo sorry this happen to you💓.. But at the end of the day the truth is you don't deserve to have someone like that in your life or around you kids. He's disgusting and a True liar. I can imagine how crushed you are. I hope you find peace and try to focus on making a better life for you and your kids.. Maby if possible take a mini vacation or go visit some of your family. I'm not surprised his family is ok with it.. Thats where he inherited the fucked up logic and triffling actions... Please try and find your light at the end of the tunnel.. For your kids sake💕Good luck momma

Er

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I'm so sorry. That's an awful situation to go through. Maybe you should talk to a therapist about all of this. His family is going to side with him, because they're his family. That's how it works. But it's usually because he fills their heads with all kinds of excuses and garbage to make himself look better under the circumstances. Over time they will see. I assure you they always do. As for you, it's time to move on. Be rid of him and the disaster that became your marriage. You gave it your best shot more than once. Hold your head up high you did nothing wrong and start doing things for yourself. Being happy is the best revenge. It drives them crazy. Good luck to you!

an

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i'm so sorry for the pain you went through.. he's a dick! hopefully you'll stay strong 

ha

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and the kids deserve better u and the kids dont deserve what he did to yall

ha

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u deserve so much better!!

An

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Unfortunately some families are like that. They see incest as a good thing, keeps the "blood lines" strong. Bs in my opinion. I'm sorry but my Momma taught me how to love my cousins and just because Aunty left doesn't mean anything. People are disgusting. The Facebook incident may have been overboard. I find it rather childish and immature to air out dirty laundry on social media. Not to protect him in anyway because this guy is a total chode. But you probably could have handled that differently.