How would you feel if your man watches porn, but anytime you've talked about it he says he doesn't like it and doesn't watch it... and then you find videos of pornhub in his browser history and striptease videos in his youtube - the striptease he claims he was looking at so he could give me ideas of things to do for him...

I found this after months of not wanting anything to do with me sexually bc of constant fighting ( that's been better lately) & then I found the porn issue and he lies about it.. and now his response is "all guys do it, it's normal" " it has nothing to do with you" "grow up stop being a baby get over it"

Mind you he's not open about sex what he wants or doesn't and we're never spontaneous and only have sex at bedtime before we go to sleep. And never have ever had sex two nights in a row. Lucky if it's every other day.

it's more the lying than the porn that bothers me.. we could've watched it together for all I care...

Ugh. Help.