How often you have sex?

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Ladies, I would like to know how often you have sex. I am trying to figure out the "normal" range. I start with my self, I am 35 and I have sex 2-4 times a month. Thank you.

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I am around the same as you unfortunately. I'm 29 and DH is 27. He has low libido and low drive. I'd bd every day if it was up to me. I don't like reading the answers to these posts because you and I hunny seem to be in the minority here.

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Thank you, it is not about comparing as it is more to understand what other people in my age group/ situation are doing. He seems to be perfectly fine by going 20 days without sex. I absolutely love my husband but I can't help it, but feel hurt. By the way he is 40.

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I realize this poll is a little old but my husband and I have sex a couple times a month...I'm 28, so I feel like it shouldn't be this way ...I don't realize it's been so long it's like we let life get in the way. We had an argument last night about it and he says he's hurt by it, I see how it can be hurtful, but I also don't know how to fix it on my end. Often I feel like he initiates at the worst time like at 11 and I get up at 530 in the morning. I enjoy sex and I just need advice!!

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I usually get it 3/4 times a week but I would do it every day if my hubby would give it up more often lol

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I'm pregnant and every time we have sex I have issues, so right now we are darn near non-existent. But pre pregnancy 2-3 times a week. And I pray to the sex god that when this pregnancy is over, we will be right back where we started. Whatever you do in your room is between you and your spouse, there is no right or wrong answer and you shoud definitely not be comparing yourself to others. 😉

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once or twice a year. 15 years married

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Well you girls are getting it more than me I’m buying a dildo as we speak lol

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I accidentally hit one of the choices. but we have sex maybe once a month if I'm lucky. sometimes it's 3-4 months without. I'd have sex all the time if it was up to me

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Why does this question get asked ALL THE TIME?

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I'm 26, DH is 35, and we do it at least 5 times a week. We both have a high sex drive, and now that I'm pregnant, it's even higher. Don't compare your relationship to other people though, what works for you, may not work for others, and what works for others, may not work for you. Every single relationship is different, and just because you only do it a few times a month, doest mean something is wrong.

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