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New bf doesn't last long

Sorry if it's tmi but my new bf and I just started having sex with each other. We're both not new to it but it seems like we're having some issues..

He has trouble getting it in and it hurts me cos I'm very tight. Once he's in it's okay but as soon as he starts moving he has trouble controlling himself. He comes after a few strokes.

I keep telling him it's okay but it's frustrating and embarrassing to him apparently.

Is there anything we can do to help it?

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Je

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Do it twice and the second time should be better he should last longer. 

Ti

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Just give it some time. And if he's coming too fast try doing it once then resting for a few min and doing it again to help him build his stamina 

Kr

Kristine • Sep 29, 2015
Definitely a stamina issue. If you believe in toys for men, invest in one. It'll help... So I've heard. #fleshlight

Al

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Try doing some fire play with each other and get eachother off doing it then just keep it going and have sex he should last longer I told my hubby about this post and he said when he first started having sex he had the same prob and that worked now he goes for at least 30min to an hour for a quickey

Ch

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If he master bates prior too hell last longer just saying! 

J

J • Sep 30, 2015
For my SO he lasts longer if he doesn't masturbate. If he does it beforehand I only get like 5mins 😭. If doesn't 👊💦 beforehand he'll last over an hour. Each guy is different

Di

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Switch on and off. Have sex then four play then go back to having sex. Trust me it works!! 

Ra

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Tell him to think about work for a while

M.

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Maybe he is just excited because you guys are fairly new partners?

Da

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My SO was like that at first, but that's because he wasn't sexually active before we got together. He just needs to work at it. Instead I just going the full course, have him takes lite pauses, where he can calm himself. I cum before my SO sometimes now. It's been a lot better, for both of us. 
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