So, first of all, hello and I hope you may help me gain some perspective on this issue I am encountering. I am 19 years old and have always been identified as more mature for my age (physically and mentally). My preference in men is kinda of like that as well, I tend to be attracted to (and they tend to be attracted to me too) older men usually 2-4 years older than I am. I attend a small college in rural Iowa where there isn't many options for me in potential boyfriends.    In early August I joined the dating app tinder. It seemed as though I had men falling for me, but I guess that's the appeal, right? Anyway, getting to my point I met this guy on there his name is Sam. The past two months we have gotten really close and are planning to meet up in two weeks!! Which I am really excited for! I am definitely the person that falls hard and fast.  Sam and I have made our feelings clear (both are wanting this to work and are looking for a relationship from this).  We usually talk all day every day when the past few days he's been quiet.. However, he has started a new full time job on top of classes for himself. I also feel there is something else bothering him that he won't tell me. How do I approach this issue? What should I do? Thank you!