I had my first child when I was 21, naturally we were not ready for number two right away, as she was a surprise. Now my daughter is going to be 5 in December, and is in need of a sibling. We started a year ago trying to conceive number two with no success. I did gain quite a bit of weight that I never lost with baby 1, so I did expect it to take a little while to get pregnant, but a year? ! Im nervous to go to the doctor, its either they will tell me I need to lose weight or maybe they will have worse news. Its so frustrating being only 26 and having a hard time with this, especially since the first one we literally slipped 1 time and got pregnant. It will truly break my heart if I can't have more babies, I'm so ready this time, and jordyn needs a sibling. Just venting, none of my friends have started families yet so its hard for them to empathize in this situation.