I'm trying to get my BF to understand that after the baby is born I still can't have sex for at least 6 weeks. He says bull shit and doesn't believe me. We're not having sex now because I'm in a lot of pain and have a lot of discomfort because the baby is so low. But he seems to think the minute the baby is born we can go back to life as it was before. I told him is I end up with stitches or something sex could kill me but he still doesn't believe me. So what is your view on it or what are the risk of having sex before you get the ok from your doctor??