Cuddling?

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So I started talking to this new guy and we flirt a lot over text. We're both in college but he's 3 years older (so we're 21&24). We always joke about cuddling and watching movies together. And now we finally have an opportunity to actually hang out after our first date a couple weeks ago. I just want to know what y'all usually think when you hear the word "cuddle"? I'm just curious! And I've heard lots of things before haha.

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Cuddling for me is just relaxing and having fun while being physically close. Most likely spooning and kisses

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To me cuddle is just being in each others arms & maybe kissing some or just spooning. =)

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Sex, definitely sex i dont care what other people say it doesnt have to happen if you dont want to but thats deff the main idea lol

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Not all guys say cuddle and mean it sexually. My husband is the biggest cuddler. It's why we work so well together (:

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I cuddle with my hubby.... After we have sex. Perhaps that's what he is thinking too. Be careful and set some ground rules if ur not ready

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I think you need to define "cuddling" because it could mean any number of things. There's nothing wrong with telling a guy what you're ready for or not ready for.

And if your not comfortable having that conversation, you're not ready for any of it.

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Yes def let him know if ur not ready to have sex but every time me and my SO just want to "cuddle" and watch a movie it didn't end up that way lol

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Sounds like "Netflix and chill" which is really just sex. If you don't want to have sex, just make sure to stand your ground and let him know if y'all start fooling around

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It really depends on context and the people. My husband and I when we were just dating would say we wanted to watch YouTube videos and cuddle, and when I spent the night for the first time it was just cuddling for a little, but we had wanted each other for six years soooo it escalated quickly lol. I can't say I've ever dated someone and when we said lets cuddle it began and ended with just cuddling. Buuuut I am an extremely sexual person with a high sex drive. So it varies!

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In my opinion sex usually does happen when you're cuddling especially since you two are I'm sure curious about each other. But I mean if you don't want to then you can stick to just cuddling.

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