Hoping for a vbac but.....

This will be our second child but is our fifth pregnancy. I have one living 16mo. She was born via emergency c section. We see our doctor on October 12th for my first visit. I am considered high risk but I really really really want to have a vbac. My husband isn't really supportive of the idea and I'm scared my doctor won't either. Long story short do you ladies have any suggestions or good comments or questions that I should have ready the day of my appointment to talk about vbac or should I just walk in there and say please doctor lady don't slice me open I wanna push a baby from my lady bits