My son is 3 months and I am a single mom. My ex left me when I told him I was pregnant and his name is not on the B.C and my son has my last name. My parents are pressuring me to go after him for child support. What should I do? I'm confused.

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My ex disappeared when I got pregnant. Didn't end the relationship, didn't tell me anything. He spent the first week telling me he was so excited then just left. He came back right before I had our son and threw a fit that I was giving him my last name and spent the first nearly month of our son's life promising us the world and saying he loved me then disappeared again and recently told me that our son was nothing more than a mistake that trapped him. I think it's fair for a man to pay for the child he helped creat, you didn't ask to do this alone.

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I would first try to talk to him about it but if he doesn't act right and you feel like that's a choice then do it. It's up to you.

Your son is handsome btw 😊😊😊

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try a verbal agreement. if not, file for child support. You didn't get pregnant alone.

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Go for child support! You have a cutie that wasn't made by you alone, & you need to get yo money! 😊

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If you feel you need the money from him then do it but if not don't stress yourself over it, kids are not clueless and your son will know that you were there for him and that's really all that matters. In the future his dad will regret his decision and it will be too late. You can reach out and if he still doesn't want to be in his life then so be it his loss.

My son is 3 months and I am a single mom. My ex left me when I told him I was pregnant and his name is not on the B.C and my son has my last name. My parents are pressuring me to go after him for child support. What should I do? I'm confused.

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