Am I entitled to my feelings or not?
Just a little confused here.
Say I have been dating someone for quite some time ( a year and some change ) . Relationship got deep and serious and personal.. We practically became lovers/best friends. We even LIVE together.
Things took a wrong turn and I wish I knew exactly why and wish I saw it coming.
Ok now, we've broke up. Actually HE broke up with me. Reason behind it was to "work on things" .. Ok, cool I can deal with that. But the problem comes in as to why we had to break up to work on things and still be living together. (We're also expecting a baby soon) I'm getting mixed signals from him. One minute he wants to be all lovey dovey and next he wants to throw it in my face that I'm not entitled to feel how I feel at times because we're not even boyfriend and girlfriend anymore. I guess I can admit that one night I got emotional and asked "how can you honestly say after being together for quite some time, I'm pregnant with your child, that you lost all feelings for me"
He didn't like that, he got annoyed actually so I never brought it up again. But he messes with my feelings, one night he wants to hug and try to kiss me and all that crap but throw it in my face that I can't feel anything for him because we're not dating anymore, just working on things.
That worries me because I'm afraid maybe now that we're broken up (yet living together, pregnant with our first , due soon) that I am not ALLOWED to feel upset if he ever decides to hit it up with the next chick. And I say that NOT because I don't trust him but because I actually brought that up and apparently the answer was "we're not even dating"
Sorry if I confused y'all ..
Rant over 😩
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