does everyone agree this is normal? my midwife has basically concluded that the sharp, shooting pains i'm feeling in my vagina is most likely the baby in my pelvis. she hasn't really said whether that's ok or worrisome though. as a ftm i'm so new to this and really anxious. along with low abdominal cramps and back pain, it still doesn't necessarily mean early labor symptoms right? i really do not want to go into the er. i'm having a homebirth!