I'm 34 weeks pregnant with baby #2 and grandparent(s) are refusing to get the flu and tdap vaccines. My doctor told me anyone who will be around baby for an extended period of time should get both of the vaccines. I have, my husband will be and our son is up to date on the tdap, but getting the flu shot. My mother wants to stay here a week or so, I don't know how to tell her unless she gets vaccinated she's not going to be. Same thing with my in laws. Hubby seems to be more willing to let it slide but I'm not!! I'm already stressed because he hasn't quit smoking...and my mom smokes and my mil uses the vapor cigarettes, and she smokes those around my 9 year old and that already upsets me, but when he's there I understand it's her house so I can't really say much. I'm not sure what to do or how to approach any of this with them. 😩😩😩