I cannot STAND my MIL!!!! She RSVPs to my shower that MY mother is paying for saying that her friend Jeff is taking her and her sisters (NONE OF THEM DRIVE) and he will have to STAY for the whole shower. "Hope that's ok". How do you say, no it's not ok? It's $40/person, plus more dessert now, more drinks & a bigger table when I FINALLY had the seating chart complete after trying to figure it out for a month. I can't stand her!!! All she does is ask for things and never reciprocates. I bet she won't even bring a gift