Why is it when women aren't prepared for children it's okay to coddle them and give them options to abort or adopt out to make their life easier. However if a man isn't prepared for a baby, he all of a sudden becomes an ass. Becomes a monster. If someone doesn't want to raise a child, that is their decision. It's wrong to not hold women to the same responsibilities for their actions as men. Be fair. Your so doesn't want a child right now? Back off. He doesn't have to just give you a child because you feel like you're both ready. That is why relationships and marriages fail.