So I think it is important because it gives you that intimacy with your partner making it a relationship not just a close friendship or whatever like different from your relationships with friends etc. My boyfriend doesn't feel the same and therefore doesn't want sex hardly ever, I really struggle with this because I don't want to seem pushy or over the top but I feel distant from him and I feel like I'd like him to make an effort to get a bit more into it. Is that awful of me?