Frustrated :/

I'm feeling very frustrated with how my husband is acting lately, we are currently 5w5d today and recently in July we had an ectopic pregnancy and I had to have surgery to remove the baby from my Fallopian tube. After that I really just want to wait to tell anyone till I'm atleast 5 months and my husband wants to at 3 months. And I was planning to tell our families in a special way and he is going to ruin it just telling them early. And I'm also afraid. I want to make sure the baby is healthy and everything is going well. I just wish he wud be more sensitive and understand where I'm coming from. But since he didn't have to go through what I did it's like it's not that big of a deal to him. Am I over reacting ?