Its our first kid and I was thinking of doing both a reveal and baby shower.. I wanted the reveal party to be more of a diaper-extravaganza (everyone bring different sizes in diaper) & the baby shower be a normal baby shower.. My SO family lives in New Orleans & my family in Shreveport (so we're in two different countries, Louisiana people know wat I mean lol).. But is it asking for too much if we have both?? Feedback is appreciated.. I take all criticism..