Did anyone feel their husband wasn't ready for kids?

Ash • Married 8.2.2014. 1st Boy 11.24.16. 2nd Boy 8.27.18
I know I overreact when he doesn't do the dishes or doesn't feed the dog.... but I do this because as we are planning to start trying for a baby in January, and I feel like he can't take care of simple chores how could he take care of a baby? Am I wrong? Who else had doubts and how did you overcome them?