It really bothers me and hurts me deeply when people say c-section mamas didn't really give birth. Having a cesarean and not having the birth we had all planned, invisioned and dreamt about is something we will all have to live with and deal with and it isn't always easy. It really bothers me that I didn't have a vaginal birth and scares me that I may never get to have that experience but I still believe I gave birth to my son. I still brought him into this work with or without medical assistance. I had to lay on that cold OR table my body trembling from being in shock, scared and unsure with the bright lights shining down on me. I had my stomach cut open and am left with a scar to remind me for the rest of my life. I had a long, hard recovery and had trouble breastfeeding since it took longer for my milk to come in. I still gave birth and I'm still a mom. If anything I am thankful for being able to have a cesarean since my baby may not have made it otherwise. So please think about what you say before it leaves your mouth. Your words can deeply hurt others.