So I'm not crazy experienced I'm only 16 but I'm not brand new I've had sex probably not even 40 times and sex still does hurt a lot at first like its hard to get it in but once it's in I just feel nothing. Not like it's numb I can feel it going in and out but I get absolutely no pleasure. I can feel the muscles squeezing but I can't loosen them up even if I concentrate and try to stop. I don't have this problem with fingers tho like I don't think my muscles tighten when it's just fingers and it feels like a little bit good but still not great. Do I have vaginismus? I've done so much research but I can't come to a conclusion