Not sure how I contribute
I'm pretty sure it's mostly hormones talking, but that doesn't disregard the fact that I feel useless around my house.
What started it:
My husband said he was having a bad day yesterday. I've been really slacking on cleaning and laundry because I just feel like crap during this pregnancy. But I thought it'd be nice to have the house nice and clean for him when he got home.
His response was that he doesn't care about a clean house. And I know in the past this meant "don't stress about it, just focus on the kid", but it stung a little.
On top of it, he's going to a wedding with our son tomorrow. I decided to stay and work. I only work on Saturdays so I feel guilty taking off work. But, today I noticed that I don't have any appointments and offered to go with.
His response "no you need to work".
So I just feel like my efforts of SAHM are nothing to him and it's only worth anything if I make money.
Sorry for the pity party. Thanks for listening.
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